Creating Healthy Connections with Yourself and the People Around You

Our spiritual practice transcends into different aspects of our lives. It helps us stay grounded and remain in our flow even in the most turbulent of times. As you continue to work on deeply connecting with your core, you create a profound balance in your life. In turn, you also make more meaningful healthy connections with yourself and the people around you. Ultimately, you’re able to bring peace, stability, and bliss to your energy.

In today’s episode of Wisdom Wednesday, Rosie speaks with Spirit Daughter Jill Wintersteen about the power of human connections. They talk about their connection and how Jill became an inspiration in Rosie’s yoga teaching journey. Jill also discusses how she worked on critical aspects of herself and her practice after becoming a mom. She then shares the biggest lessons she learned from the pandemic around connecting with people.

If you want to know how you can create healthy connections, this episode is for you!

Here are three reasons why you should listen to the full episode:

  1. Learn the power of routine, groundedness, and commitment.

  2. Discover the importance of human connections.

  3. Find out the value of meditation in moments when you feel stuck.

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    Episode Highlights

    [00:05] Rosie and Jill’s Connection

    • Jill was Rosie’s inspiration for becoming a yoga teacher.

    • Seeing Jill read a poem in her class gave Rosie permission to read something written instead of memorizing everything when teaching.

    [02:33] Jill 10 Years Ago and Jill Today

    • Jill has become a different person, but core staples like yoga remained in her life.

    • She’s seven months pregnant with her second child and is married to her second husband. She’s more stable now, with a lot more commitments.

    • 10 years ago, Jill was coming out of her first marriage, dealing with trauma and healing.

    • Her life is now more grounded, scheduled, and committed.

    [08:05] Becoming More Grounded as a Mom

    • Becoming better when she became a mom came naturally to Jill.

    • One reason she launched Spirit Daughter was to keep traveling together with her first husband.

    • Having a child immediately grounded her and her first husband. They’re all Leos.

    • Leos are a fixed sign. They typically like routine.

    • They locked into a consistent routine schedule. Tune in to the full episode to hear more about this!

    [11:22] Navigating Business and Parenting while Maintaining Her Practice

    • It’s critical to understand that you can’t do everything you want to do in a day.

    • It’s a juggling act that comes down to priorities.

    [12:11] Jill: "Many things come up in businesses that you could talk about that you don't need to talk about? So it's really being clear about the priorities day-to-day." — Click Here to Tweet This

    • She finds it crucial to connect with her team meaningfully.

    • Jill maintains her practice by getting up at 5:30 am every day.

    [13:27] Biggest Lessons from the Pandemic

    • Jill learned about the things that steal her energy, no matter how much she meditates.

    • She monitored her energy to see what was affecting it. A critical aspect of it was not reading the news.

    • She put up boundaries and started connecting with herself more deeply.

    • Hanging out with and seeing friends impacted Jill significantly during this period.

    [12:59] Jill: “It’s just creating these priorities, realizing that I can't do everything that I want to do in a day. There [are] always things that are going to be on my to-do list that I just can't do, and some of it just has to do with time. — Click Here to Tweet This

    [16:25] The Need for Connection During the Pandemic

    • She recognized the need to balance her physical and mental health.

    • Her first child was seven months old when the quarantine happened.

    • Having fellow moms to rely on is crucial for first-time moms.

    • Human connection is critical for your overall health.

    [17:23] Jill: “Just realizing the importance of connection and having those people to bond with, not just over Zoom but in person, sitting on the lawn and just connecting—it's so important for your health.”  —Click Here to Tweet This

    [18:37] For When You Feel Stuck

    • Vipassana is the meditation of her choice for whenever she feels stuck. She has recordings of meditations from Goenka, the founder of the practice.

    • Jill also goes back to other guided meditations and teachings that bring her back to her roots.

    [20:00] Jill: “There are some of those meditation sessions where you just drop in and you’re in the abyss. You are one with everything, and time stands still or moves fast. Who knows — you’re one with time.” —Click Here to Tweet This

    • There’s no judgment in how you meditate. For Jill, she finds her greatest insights in sessions where she drops in and goes into the abyss.

    • It can take an entire hour to get into that one moment of pure meditative bliss.

    [21:08] Excitement for the Future

    • She’s most excited about having her second baby.

    • You have to go through the actual birth journey to know what it’s really about. 

    [20:28] Jill: “Sometimes, I feel like you have to meditate for an hour just to get that one moment of pure meditative bliss. But, getting to that point, it’s just like, ‘Ah, okay. Everything is figured out now.’” —Click Here to Tweet This

    About Jill

    Jill Wintersteen is a spiritual teacher, author, and founder of the astrology and spiritual wellness brand Spirit Daughter. Her background is in neuroscience, psychology, yoga, and Chinese medicine. Through Spirit Daughter, Jill empowers people to design their best lives using spirituality and astrology as a roadmap. She writes the highly sought New Moon and Full Moon workbooks to provide guidance for aligning our relationship to cosmic cycles.

    If you want to connect with Jill, visit Spirit Daughter’s website and Instagram and follow her on her personal Instagram account.

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